Stories and reflections from the places where life and death meet. These pieces offer another way to understand the work: not through a list of services, but through attention to the people, rooms, objects, silences, and ordinary acts of care that surround dying and grief.
On New Years Day this year a drive to clear my head took me past a cemetery not far from my home. I made a U-turn and pulled into Singing Hills Memorial Park. As I ventured across the grass, in the distance I saw two shepherd-mix dogs who were also walking among the graves. When one of them made eye contact, I smiled to which that large male responded with a dopey canter toward me. Continue Reading

Susie died on a Monday in July.
Now, weeks later, the hummingbird feeders in front of her house are almost empty. For so long she talked about making a hummingbird garden until one by one the feeders started to appear. Before long the little birds congregated there throughout the summer days. They loved her house. Continue Reading

I came too late, an hour after she took her last breath. Her caregiver led me into Gladys’s room, took a wipe and washed Gladys’s lips which gently opened to the familiar touch, then turned and hugged me before leaving me with Gladys’s body. Two days before when I visited, she mostly slept. I sat watching each breath, thinking how pretty her white hair was and how, just short of becoming a centenarian, her skin was radiant. Continue Reading

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